Freedoms of Sexual Abstinence

1. 
Freedom from the physical dangers of multiple partner sex: sexually transmitted diseases, cancer of the cervix, and unwanted pregnancy.
2. 
Freedom from the problems of birth control: the pill and its side effects, the IUD and its risks.
3. 
Freedom from the pressure to marry too soon
4. 
Freedom from the pain of giving your baby up for adoption
5. 
Freedom from exploiting others or being exploited by others and all the emotions that come with it -- guilt, doubt, worry, disappointment, anger and rejection.
6. 
Freedom to be in control of your body.
7. 
Freedom to get to know your dating partner as a person.
8. 
Freedom to be in control of your life and your future -- not to have it disrupted by pregnancy or disease.
9. 
Freedom to respect yourself.
10. 
Freedom to look forward to marriage and not be haunted by the "ghosts" of past sexual relationships.
11. 
Freedom to enjoy being a teenager.
12. 
Freedom to form a strong marriage bond with one person for a lifetime -- in other words, abstinence before marriage leads to greater trust, commitment and faithfulness in marriage.


Six Basic Steps to Sexual Abstinence




Source: www.realchoices.com/freedoms.html, The Pregnancy Resources Center of Sohonomish County 2005.