Six Basic Steps to Sexual Abstinence

1.  Dress appropriately. The way you dress sends messages to others even when you don't intend to. Guys are especially affected because they are designed to be sexually stimulated by what they see.
2.  Don't do drugs or alcohol. Drugs and alcohol cloud you decision-making ability and lower your resistance to say no.
3.  Don't spend long periods of time alone together. Date wisely... that is; avoid long periods of time alone together because it can lead to too much physical contact too soon.
4.  Go out with people with similar goals. Be friendly with everyone, but having close relationships with people who have similar values and goals makes it easier to keep your value system.
5.  Recognize your love need and what it means. Knowing and understanding your vulnerable areas will protect you from making some serious mistakes.
6.  Set your standard high and set it before the heat is on. Decide now why you want to be a virgin and stick to it.




Source: www.realchoices.com/freedoms.html, The Pregnancy Resources Center of Sohonomish County 2005.