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The boyfriend’s page
really take a moment to think...
When you decide to become sexually
involved with your girlfriend, you need to think
through the issues.
Condoms and other
birth control methods are not a guarantee that your girlfriend will
not become pregnant. As a matter of fact, over a million young women
in this country face unplanned pregnancies each
year.
There are some serious
questions a responsible man needs to ask himself,
because if you
are going to become sexually active, the fact is you may get a girl
pregnant.
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If your girlfriend became pregnant
would you leave her? (unfortunately, many boyfriends do) |
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Are you ready to support a child with your
time, energy and money? |
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Will you go with your girlfriend to tell her
parents the news? (most guys won't) |
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Are you willing to marry her and give your
child a two-parent family? |
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Would you be willing to release your child
for an adoption? |
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Will you put pressure on her to have an abortion? |
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Are you willing to learn all about abortion
so that you can anticipate possible medical complications and
likely relationship problems? |
If you are not ready to be a father and commit yourself
in marriage to one woman, you should wait to have sex. The pain
you can cause to your child and a woman are very real, it happens
everyday. Be responsible
for your actions and exercise your self-control.
Is she pregnant already?
The CareNet Pregnancy Centers are here for boyfriends
too. Contact us if you are serious
about your relationship and desire to be there for your girlfriend.
All conversations are completely confidential. Note: please
allow 24 hours (or until the next business day) for a personal response.
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